We were not prepared for this
for having to grieve a body
that is still alive
but a thief of life.

I do not remember my last run
can’t recall if I made good time
or if it was one of those
never ending
count the cracks of the pavement
the broken backs of all mothers
be it yours or mine,
kind of runs.

I remember the doctor telling me no more
like he was some God I forgot to pray to
did not pile enough at the alter of
gratitude for every stride
now
I drown dried petals in tears
do not recall my last real stride.

We were not prepared for this.

I do not remember the look on my mother’s face
forever remember the words engraved,
“what was that running doing for you anyway?”

It was everything
but you cannot translate everything
это все
in Russian
without also saying,
“that’s it”
все!

We were not prepared for, “that’s it,”
for hang up your jersey
I held onto my track...

My body
has always been this cold thing
my mother
always tells me
it’s a bad thing
I’ve learned to tell myself the same
but don’t see a thing in the world I could change.
Maybe my body
remains so cold because all of the heat has gone to its joints
maybe my body
has become so brittle because it cannot bear anymore weight.

My therapist
suggests referring me elsewhere
doesn’t know how to talk about my pain
has no idea what it feels like
I can’t remember a day in the last ten years
where I had no idea what if feels like
where pain wasn’t baseline
where a day off wasn’t a miraculous exception.

I don’t remember the last miraculous exception.

Don’t remember not feeling like the sick friend
“No,”
has begun to slip from my tongue
before they even ask
my body
a constant rejection
the invites
have stopped arriving at its door.

But they are all still so full of compliments,
“look...

Ever forgotten the word for turtle?
черепаха.

Ever forgotten the word for dress?
dress
dress
dress

платье!

Ever forgotten how to pronounce your last name in your first language?

Yes.

Ever been too embarrassed to ask?

Yes.

At least I know my first name
know it means
peace
but it often feels like war.

War
war
war

…nothing

I’ve noticed when I have nothing
I fill in the space with anger
with leave
with not interested

what I mean is
I don’t know how to say
what I mean
what I mean
what I mean

Is I will bury my parents
with having never known anything
of substance
see I don’t know how to ask
anything of substance
I don’t even know the word for
substance
substance
substance

…nothing.

Rock-a-bye, baby
On the treetop
When the wind blows
The cradle will rock

I have been balancing
on a tree branch
this moment
knows all the anxiety that will
follow me down,
when I swear I’ve finally become grounded.

When the bough breaks
The cradle will fall

Grounded.
Grounded.
What is grounded if not having finally found
the bottom of the rabbit hole?
Found the pit, following all those running thoughts.
It is dark in here
no matter your focus
you can’t imagine the light bulb on.
You can only take the paths that you walk upon.
Sometimes it’s too late to change direction.
This is down.

And down will come baby
Cradle and all

Call everything you do protection,
wrap yourself in illusionary shelter
we’ll call it by it’s name
its only a name
let’s not get offended
by numb
sometimes it’s useful
when it’s growing dark you try not to feel
the light leave the room.
But...

She fumbles trying to put her jacket on a ledge
I giggle
tell her that took a little too long
she giggles
tells me it’s the tequila
I stop, think,
she just got here
begin to grieve for her son
she goes and buys herself a drink.

He gets behind the wheel
too many to count
why bother
he drives better this way
swears it
is more careful
never been stopped
only when sober and speeding
swears it.

I get in the backseat of his car
giggling
letting my eyes droop
seat belt off
could be driving the wrong direction
but hey
if I die
at least I’m with blood
maybe if our blood spills it can mix
and if our blood mixes then we can finally be close
I wanna be close like that
so I’m cool like this
buzzing and buzzing
and silent and silent
make my way upstairs and pass out
just like that.

He gets behind the wheel
all sober and shit
driving home from a graduation party
after...

I wanted to write a poem
on the night after the night of crying

this is the first one
after the the last one that felt worse than death
and I remember describing it that way

after a year of death
to include: no one saw it coming, an endless nap, suicide, and
her,
the piece of bloodline that led to love
after all of it
it was this heartbreak that strapped me to the bed
or the floor
and it all felt like forever.

I wonder, if the one after that one
and every one after that
will always feel like
dry eyes on the night,
after the night of crying?

And is it because I have nothing left to give?
Am I the dry well left behind, kept for decoration,
maybe something nice to remember
but to never use to it’s full capacity
is my heart
something never to be used to it’s full capacity?

Or does learning to walk away
just begin to feel more like power
and less like pain?
Even...

When I call my father to talk about love
I call him to talk about
what we need to add to the Costco list
in a way,
I think we are actually having the conversation
But still I ask,
“Why do we never say I love you?”
He tells me
how he wasn’t raised this way
how Americans,
throw it around all the time
and it means
nothing
and don’t I already know?

The phone call ends on shopping lists
I’m sure I ask for the usual
oatmeal to last a lifetime
spinach
and almond milk.

I think when my father buys me almond milk
he thinks I’ll know he loves me
and on some level I do
but doesn’t he know?

The damage we are doing?
That almond milk purchases aren’t so innocent
that the bees are dying
that the land is starving

that not speaking of love
it will have consequences
that do not end with us.

We don’t talk about
what immigration feels like enough
to the degree
that I don’t know how to describe
what being an immigrant feels like enough

only say things like
I am not this
but also no longer that enough to say it
no sure what side of the ocean holds my home
being in America
has felt a bit like

a permanent type of temporary

and as confusing as that might sound
that is the best way I think I’ve ever described it
and it feels just like that
meaning
it feels
as confusing as that might sound.

When they ask me to speak my native language
I do
unless there are others of my type around
then I become hesitant
scared that my native language has become less native than theirs
scared
I am but a mere google translation away
from wrong
from I forgot the word for that
to
you know it doesn’t really translate over
like my dad
never fails tell me
that I do not
get...

The people lie in the cold of the Denver streets
the church still has its lights on
but doors locked.
God
only for the privileged.

My fathers still lights those candles
the wax still melts on church floors
he always forgets to bring the fire home.

Broadway reminds me of the only man
I came to love
fell for.
I remember him wrapping his arms around me
there
me
all butterflies
us
all kisses.

University reminds me of the man I thought
I’d fall in love with
but never tripped.
He brought me Broadway.

Broadway brought me home.

Home
reminds me that I like to be alone most times.
That I’m capable of loving myself in the quiet.
Think this might be why I fell in love
I was really trying to give myself away.

I think I gave myself to a man who hasn’t learned to love
himself in the quiet.
He tried to take me down too
made me feel less beautiful
I painted my face for him...

Ever hear the wind
blow through the trees
and remind you
that there are trees and wind
and you’re not the only thing
spinning on this planet
ya’ll we are spinning
on a planet!

Glued to her by our feet
our hips
the lucky ones
can spin by the crowns of their heads
ever think
about just how much love
it’s gotta take
to keep us all so close
think about
just how much
she doesn’t want to let us go

pulls us in by her core
and man
when we end
be it at our own hand
or nature’s way of aging
she pulls us in closer
let’s our dying cells blend
with every living piece she’s ever had to offer

she is so
unlike us,

doesn’t fear our death
and doesn’t punish whatever route we took to reach it
knows only how to nurture us further
while she nurtures herself further
chews our decaying bones
so we may rise another
play on her playground once more.

Ever think of that?
This...